Ulfah. For spouses who already found each other.
Sixty-two questions you each answer on your own phone and that unseal only when you have both written, a rights map with the reference on every entry, and du'a with the source named on every card.
Ulfah is for spouses who already found each other. It is not a matchmaking app, there is no feed, and nothing you write is shown to anyone outside your marriage. Begin on your own, and link with your spouse only when you choose.
- Works solo — partner optional
- One purchase covers both partners
What makes it worth keeping.
Sixty-two questions, sealed in pairs
Eight decks cover the parts of a marriage that cause arguments and the parts that hold it together: Money, Family & in-laws, How we talk, Gratitude, Our story, Home & the everyday, Tenderness and The years ahead. Pick any question. You each write on your own phone, and neither answer unseals until both are in, even if the second one arrives days later. Today also carries one question a day, sealed the same way, so neither of you is going first.
Linked only when you choose
Signing in links you to nobody. When you are ready, Make our private code creates a code on your phone: twelve letters and numbers that work once and stop working after 48 hours. Our server never receives the code, only a scrambled fingerprint of it. Send it as text, or as a link that opens Ulfah with the code filled in. Your screen says you are linked only once your spouse has really joined. A waiting code can be withdrawn, Settings has Leave this pairing, and blocking your spouse ends the pairing as well.
The Rights tab, with the reference attached
A map of huquq az-zawjayn in twelve entries drawn from the Qur'an and the hadith. Each prints the ayah or the hadith number it rests on, and each entry that rests on a narration also prints the grade the classical scholars gave it. Each says whether the source names the right as belonging to both of you or to one of you, and ends with something to say tonight. It opens by saying it is a map for talking, not a ruling.
Today knows the Hijri date
Today opens with the Hijri date and does something with it. On Jumu'ah it asks you to make one du'a for your marriage out loud, where your spouse can hear it. In Ramadan it counts the day, and it marks the last ten nights. The rest of the year it tells you how far off Ramadan is. Dates follow the Umm al-Qura calendar, and the card says your local moonsighting may land a day either side.
Du'a and reflections, every source named
Fourteen cards in all: thirteen on the Du'a tab and the reflection of the week on Today. Every card names its source, and every card built on a narration names the grade too. Where a card rests on the Qur'an, the reference is given rather than a translation quoted. A screen in Settings lists where all of it came from, and none of it is part of Ulfah Pro.
Private, and modest
No feed, no public profile, no strangers. Answers and thank-yous are encrypted on your own phone before they are sent, and they are kept in the Memory Book alongside your nikah date and the markers of your years. No streaks, no badges, no scores, and no notifications of any kind.
Paid once, for both of you
Ulfah Pro is paid once and covers your spouse. It never renews, and one purchase covers your spouse for as long as you are linked. Pro opens the other forty-six questions in the library. Pairing, today's question, two questions in every deck, the rights map and every du'a and reflection stay outside it. If you took out a monthly or yearly plan in the previous version, it still counts, and Restore purchase finds it.
A marriage kept in conversation
You already found each other. What the days crowd out is the talking.
Sixty-two questions across eight decks give you somewhere to start, from money and in-laws to tenderness and the years ahead.
You each answer on your own phone, and neither answer unseals until both are in, even if the second one arrives days later.
Linking waits for you: a one-use code made on your phone, good for 48 hours, and a screen that says you are linked only once your spouse has really joined.
Read the rights map as a map for talking, not a ruling, and take the last line of each entry to dinner.
Made for your two.
Spouses who already found each other
Not a place to meet anyone. A few quiet minutes a day for the marriage you are already in.
Couples who want every source named
Each reflection carries its ayah or its hadith number, and the grade the scholars gave it. No rulings, no fatwa.
Couples who want it private and modest
No feed, no audience, no photos of strangers' marriages. What you write stays between the two of you.
How it actually feels.
It is Friday. Today opens with the Hijri date and asks you to make one du'a for your marriage out loud, where your spouse can hear it. Later in the week you open the decks, pick a question on money or the years ahead, and write yours. It stays sealed until your spouse has written theirs, even if that is days away.
Questions, answered.
Does Ulfah give religious rulings?
No. Ulfah does not issue fatwa and is not a substitute for your own scholar. The Rights tab is a map for talking, not a ruling, and rulings differ between the schools and between situations. For anything you need decided, ask your own scholar. Ulfah is not therapy or an emergency service either.
Has a scholar reviewed or endorsed the content?
No. No scholar or advisor has endorsed this content, and Ulfah does not claim one has. What it offers is citation you can check card by card: every card names its source, and every card built on a narration names the grade the classical scholars gave it. Settings lists all the sources in one place.
Is Ulfah a matchmaking or nikah app?
No. Ulfah is for spouses who already found each other. It is not a place to meet anyone.
How does pairing work?
Signing in links you to nobody. When you are ready, tap Make our private code and your phone creates a code of twelve letters and numbers. It works once and stops working after 48 hours, and the server only ever receives a scrambled fingerprint of it. Send it as text or as a link. Your spouse enters it, and your screen says you are linked only once they really have. A waiting code can be withdrawn, Settings has Leave this pairing, and blocking your spouse ends the pairing too.
Can we answer any question together?
Yes. Pick any question in any of the eight decks. You each write on your own phone, and neither answer unseals until both are in, whether the second one arrives tonight or next week. Two questions in every deck are open to everyone.
Does my spouse have to pay as well?
No. Ulfah Pro covers your spouse for as long as you are linked, so only one of you buys it, once, and it never renews.
Is Ulfah Pro a subscription?
No. It is paid once and nothing renews. If you took out a monthly or yearly plan in the previous version, it still counts and Restore purchase finds it. Ending a plan you no longer want is done from your App Store account.
What is free?
Pairing, today's question, two questions in every deck (sixteen in all), the Rights tab and every du'a and reflection are outside Ulfah Pro. Pro opens the other forty-six questions.
Can we look around before pairing?
Yes. On the welcome screen, Have a look around opens the app with a sample spouse, no account needed. Linking joins two real accounts, so for that you sign in with Apple and make a code. Beginning on your own is fine too.
Is there a way back after a hard moment?
Yes. From Today, Make repair is a short, calm way back: pick where you are, choose a gentle opener and set an hour to talk. It is a small prompt between spouses, not therapy.
Does Ulfah send notifications?
No. Ulfah sends no notifications of any kind.
Is anything public?
No. There is no feed, no public profile and no strangers. Answers and thank-yous are encrypted on your phone before they are sent, and Delete account and data is in Settings if you ever want everything gone.