Wovin. Find your way back to each other.
The fight is over. The silence isn't. Wovin is for the part nobody teaches you — the way back.
When things have been hard between you, the first steps back can feel impossible. Wovin gives you a calm, private place for the second conversation: take turns, be heard, own your part, and choose one small next step. Start on your own, and pair when you're both ready.
- One purchase covers both partners
A gentle way back after a fight.
A free Repair Room for after the fight
Five stages: Perspectives, Emotions, Triggers, Accountability and Resolution. The prompts help you take turns, so one of you speaks and the other reflects back. Use one phone together or begin privately. It's free for everyone.
Nobody gets pushed ahead
When you're paired, a stage moves on only when you both mark ready. Wovin follows whoever wants to go slower, and either of you can pause for both, anytime, with no penalty.
Conversation guides for the hardest talks
Twelve guides with what to say, what to listen for and how to close. Three are free: Apologizing so it lands, Bringing up something that hurt, and When you need a pause mid-argument. Lifetime opens the other nine, from money, chores and in-laws to jealousy, phones and big decisions you disagree on. A free set of short repair phrases helps when things are heating up.
Guided programs, one step at a time
First Steps Together (four steps) is free. Wovin Lifetime opens four deeper programs for both of you, every step narrated: Rebuilding Trust, When Desire Feels Different, Reconnecting Through Life Changes and Closeness Across Distance.
Your words stay on your phone
What you write in the Repair Room and your journal stays on your device, and no AI reads it. The name you use for your partner stays on your phone too. When you're paired, Wovin coordinates only the stage and who is ready. A reflection reaches your partner only if you choose to share it, and you can lock the app with Face ID.
A calm exit, one tap away
The leaf is always close. You can breathe with the circle, try box breathing or 5-4-3-2-1 grounding, step away without a word, or find support. Stepping out never loses your place.
Comfort cards and daily check-ins
Once you're paired, you each privately mark small comforts that feel okay right now, like a slow walk or a long hug, and only the ones you both chose are shown. Daily check-ins and a private journal keep you connected between the harder talks.
Pay once, both phones open
Wovin Lifetime is one purchase that opens both phones. Only one of you buys it, your partner's phone opens while you're paired, and it never renews. Subscribed before? Your plan keeps working until it ends.
How couples drift back together
It started as one bad night. Now there's a tone of voice you both flinch at.
You've replayed the argument all day. So have they. Neither of you knows the first line.
You don't need perfect words. You need a next step small enough to take, and a way to take turns.
One of you speaks, the other reflects back, then you swap. Nothing moves on until you're both ready.
The fight is often not the hardest part. The silence after it is. End the silence first.
Made for your two.
Couples stuck in the silence after a fight
The fight ends. The silence can go on for days. End the silence first.
Partners who want to repair but do not know the first line
You do not need the perfect words, just a next step small enough to take.
Two people tired of the same argument
Repair only counts when you both choose it, at a pace you both set.
How it actually feels.
The fight was Tuesday. It is Thursday and the flat is quiet. One of you asks for a time to talk, not a verdict. In the Repair Room you take turns: one speaks, the other says back what they heard. Nothing moves on until you both mark ready, and the leaf is there if it gets too much. You finish with one small thing to try this week.
Questions, answered.
Is Wovin therapy?
No. Wovin is a guided conversation tool for couples, not therapy, counselling or crisis support. If your relationship or your safety is at risk, please reach a qualified professional or your local emergency services.
What's free?
The Repair Room with all five stages, First Steps Together, three conversation guides, the repair phrases for the heated moment, the private journal, daily check-ins, the calm leaf and support, and pairing. Wovin Lifetime opens the four deeper programs with their narrated steps and the other nine conversation guides, for both of you.
Is Wovin a subscription?
No. Wovin Lifetime is one purchase that opens both phones. Only one of you buys it, your partner's phone opens while you're paired, and it never renews, so there is nothing to cancel. If you subscribed before, your plan keeps working until it ends; if you switch to Lifetime, cancel the old plan in your Apple subscription settings so it doesn't renew.
What are the conversation guides?
Twelve short guides for the talks that are hardest to start, each with what to say, what to listen for and how to close. Apologizing so it lands, Bringing up something that hurt, and When you need a pause mid-argument are free. The other nine come with Lifetime: money, chores and the invisible to-do list, family and in-laws, phones and attention, jealousy, reconnecting after a busy stretch, different wants for closeness, after a broken promise, and big decisions you disagree on.
Can I start on my own?
Yes. You can open the Repair Room, start First Steps Together, write in your journal and use the calm tools before your partner joins, without an account. Pair when you're both ready.
How do we pair our phones?
Each of you signs in with Apple. One of you makes an invite and sends the 6-character code, and the other enters it in Wovin. A code works once, for 24 hours. Pairing costs nothing.
Do we both need to make an invite?
No, one invite is enough. If you both made one anyway, either code works: joining with your partner's code quietly retires your own.
Can I pair with more than one person?
No. Each person can be in one pair at a time.
Does anyone read what we write?
No AI reads anything you write in Wovin, and there are no ads or analytics trackers. Your Repair Room notes, your journal and the name you use for your partner stay on your device. When you're paired, Wovin coordinates only the stage, who is ready and session timing. A reflection reaches your partner only if you choose to share it, and you can lock the app with Face ID.
What if one of us is not ready?
Then you don't move on. When you're paired, a stage advances only when you both mark ready, and either of you can pause for both, anytime, with no penalty. Wovin always follows whoever wants to go slower.
How do comfort cards work?
Once you're paired, you each privately mark small comforts that feel okay right now, such as a slow walk or a long hug. Only the ones you both chose are shown, and anything you set aside stays yours.
Why is Wovin rated 17+?
One program, When Desire Feels Different, includes an optional Private Intimacy Map for adult partners: non-graphic conversation starters. You each choose privately, and Wovin shows only the starters you both chose. A shared starter is not consent, so ask again in the moment. You can clear the map at any time.
We keep having the same argument. Can Wovin help?
Wovin is built for the part after the argument. The Triggers stage helps you spot what sets the loop off, and Resolution ends with one small next step instead of another round.
What if things feel unsafe, not just hard?
A joint conversation is not the right tool when there is fear, threats or violence, and Wovin is not crisis support. Please talk to someone you trust, find a helpline near you at findahelpline.com, or call your local emergency number if you are in danger.
