Aflame. Discover what you're both into.
You both have answers you have never said out loud. Aflame only shows the ones you share.
Aflame is a consent-first couples game for adults already in a relationship. You each answer cards privately: pass, curious or want. A card is revealed only when neither of you passed, and a pass is never shown. Try it together on one phone first, then pair two phones when you are ready.
- One purchase covers both partners
A couples game you both control.
Private answers, shared matches
Answer each card on your own: pass, curious or want. It becomes a match only when neither of you passed, so a no is never shown to your partner and never implied.
Try it on one phone first
Before any account, take turns on three gentle cards, hand over the covered screen, and reveal only the picks you share. The sampler's answers stay on the device and are not saved.
Comfort level, set together
Choose the categories and the intensity that feel right. The shared deck follows whichever of you set it gentler, every new pair starts at the gentle default, and no purchase ever raises that limit.
Side by side or far apart
Pair two phones with Sign in with Apple and a one-time invite link or code. Answer whenever it suits you and watch mutual matches appear, on the same couch or in different time zones. If either of you ends the pair, both phones know.
Aflame Lifetime: pay once, for both of you
One purchase unlocks everything for good: every card your comfort settings allow, the Hot tier, all five themed packs (240 more cards), custom dares, private couple chat and your full match history. It covers your paired partner too, and nothing renews. The App Store shows the price before you buy.
A free tier you can actually use
Pair, answer and match with 24 cards at a time up to Medium intensity, plus your five latest matches. No account needed to try the one-phone sampler.
Shared Sparks, not streaks
A Shared Spark marks a day you explored a card together. Sparks add up and never reset, so taking a break costs you nothing.
A little heat, zero risk
Every couple has a conversation they keep almost having.
The hard part is rarely wanting. It is going first, and risking a no.
Aflame takes the going-first out. You answer privately. They answer privately. Only the overlap surfaces.
So the only things you see are the things you both already lean toward.
Start with three gentle cards on one phone tonight.
Made for your two.
Adult couples with a conversation they keep almost having
The hard part is rarely wanting. It is going first.
Long-distance partners who want to stay playful
Distance makes the reveals more interesting, not less.
Two people who want discovery without awkwardness
You will only ever see the things you both already want.
How it actually feels.
You keep almost having the conversation. Tonight you each answer a few cards privately instead, and Aflame only surfaces the ones neither of you passed on. A pass is never shown. What you see is the overlap, and that is an easy place to start.
Questions, answered.
How do we talk about what we want without it getting awkward?
Take away the need to go first. Each of you answers privately, and you only compare the things neither of you ruled out. Aflame does this card by card: passes stay hidden, and matches give you an easy place to start the conversation.
Will my partner see everything I answer?
No. Only cards neither of you passed on become matches. Anything either of you passed on stays private and is never shown to the other person.
Is Aflame explicit?
Aflame is rated 17+ and made for adults in a relationship. Its cards are suggestive, never graphic, and the comfort level you set together decides how far the deck goes.
Does it work long-distance?
Yes. You each play on your own phone, answer when it suits you, and matches appear for both of you once you are paired.
Is it private?
Aflame is only for the two of you: no public feed and no strangers. Your matches, private chat and custom cards are seen only by your paired partner, and unpairing and account deletion are built in.
How does consent-first matching actually work?
You each answer every card privately with pass, curious or want. If either of you passes, nothing is shown. If you both lean in (want or curious), it becomes a match you can talk about. It works like a yes, no, maybe list you each fill in separately, where you only see the overlap.
Who sets the boundaries?
You both do. Each of you sets a comfort level, and the shared deck follows whichever is gentler.
Do we both pay?
No. One Aflame Lifetime purchase covers both paired partners: pay once, nothing renews, and it includes every themed pack. The App Store shows the price before you buy.
Is it awkward if we like different things?
That is exactly what Aflame removes. You never see what the other passed on, only the matches — so different tastes never turn into an awkward moment.
Is Aflame a subscription?
No. In the current version of Aflame, Lifetime is a single purchase that never renews. If you already have an Aflame Premium plan it keeps working; you can switch to Lifetime in the app and cancel the plan in your Apple account settings so it does not renew.
