Rekindle Pace. A journey with a last day on it.
Not another feed of questions. Rekindle Pace gives the two of you a path with weeks you can count and a last step you actually reach.
Pick a journey for after betrayal, after a body changed, or after months of talking past each other, and take one short step a day. Every journey is staged into weeks, moves at the slower partner's pace and ends with a graduation card to keep. Start on your own, and invite your partner when you're ready.
- Works solo — partner optional
- One subscription covers both partners
- Grounding & crisis tools always free
Journeys you can actually finish.
Journeys with a real last day
Six journeys, from two weeks to six, each staged into weeks. Your home screen draws them as a spine, so you can see which week you're in and how many are left. Closing a week is marked, and finishing a journey opens a graduation card with your step count and week count, yours to keep or share. You can start it again from day one whenever you want.
One short step a day
A step takes three to ten minutes: a prompt, then one specific thing to try, like the sentence to open with and what to do when it goes sideways. Of the 103 steps, 45 are yours alone and 58 need both of you. Nothing in the journeys is generated while you read it.
The slower partner sets the pace
Paired steps stay shut until you've each said you're ready. Every journey moves at the slower person's pace, and either of you can pause every paired step from Settings, at any hour, without giving a reason.
Start on your own
Start Solo is a free two-week private path for getting steady and working out what you need before you invite anyone. The journal, boundary cards and grounding tools work from the first minute, and keep working if your partner never joins.
The Desire track, only when you both say yes
Three more staged journeys, 27 days in all, about wanting each other again. They open only when you've both privately chosen a level, the gentler choice always wins, and either of you can close the whole track by choosing “Not right now”, which shuts it for both of you at once with nothing owed. Each one opens on boundaries first. Words only, never graphic.
Calm tools, always free
Grounding and breathing tools and support resources are free and stay free, so you can stop and steady yourself before, during or after any step. Guided audio sessions for grounding, breathing and steadying before a hard talk are there too, and two of the six are free.
No streaks, ever
Nothing in Rekindle Pace counts down at you. Settings shows the days you showed up, and that number can't be broken, lost or sold back to you.
Your journal stays yours
Your journal, your intake answers and any boundary you declined are never shown to your partner. Report, block, unpair, export and delete-everything all live in the app.
How couples find the way back
Nothing blew up. A hard season, a changed body, months of talking past each other, and the way back isn't obvious.
Another feed of questions doesn't give you a way through. A path with an end does.
A journey runs a set number of weeks, with a countable number of steps and one small thing to try each day.
Some steps are yours alone. The ones that need both of you stay shut until you've each said you're ready, so the slower person sets the pace.
Then the last day arrives, with a card that says how far you went and an offer to walk it again if you want.
Made for your two.
Couples who want a way back after a rupture
A journey with a last day gives you something finite to start, at a pace you can both keep.
Partners where one is ready before the other
Start Solo, privately, and invite your partner when you choose. Nothing opens for both of you until you've each said yes.
Couples tired of endless prompts
Weeks you can count, steps you can finish, and no streaks to lose.
How it actually feels.
It is a Wednesday evening, week three of six. Tonight's step takes about seven minutes: a prompt, then one thing to try, with the sentence to open with. Your home screen draws the weeks as a spine, so you can see where you are and how many are left. The next paired step opens once you have each said you're ready, and if one of you isn't, it stays shut.
Questions, answered.
Is Rekindle Pace therapy?
No. Rekindle Pace is a relationship wellness app made of reflection and communication exercises. It is not therapy, medical care, diagnosis, treatment or crisis support. If your relationship or your safety is at risk, please reach a qualified professional or your local emergency services.
What's free?
Start Solo, the journal, boundary cards, the grounding tools, support resources and two of the six guided audio sessions are free. Rekindle Pace Pro opens the other five journeys, the other four guided sessions, paired steps, reflections passed between your phones and the Desire track. Pro is a monthly or yearly subscription (the yearly plan has a 7-day free trial for anyone eligible).
Who gets charged if one of us subscribes?
One subscription covers both partners. Settings names which seat you're sitting in: if your partner is the one paying, it says plainly that you are not being charged and there is nothing on your Apple ID to cancel. If you're the one paying, Manage or cancel opens Apple's cancel sheet without leaving the app.
Can I start on my own?
Yes. Start Solo, the journal, boundary cards and grounding tools work from the first minute and keep working if your partner never joins. Pair when you're ready.
How do we pair our phones?
One of you creates an invite in Settings and shares the six-character code, and the other types it in. An invite code lasts 24 hours.
Can I pair with more than one person?
No. Each person can be in one pair at a time. You can unpair from Settings whenever you want.
What if one of us is not ready?
Then you don't move on. Paired steps stay shut until you've each said you're ready, every journey follows the slower person's pace, and either of you can pause every paired step from Settings, at any hour, without giving a reason.
Can my partner see my journal?
No. Your journal, your intake answers and any boundary you declined are never shown to your partner.
What happens when we finish a journey?
The app says so: a graduation card with your step count and week count, yours to keep or share. A journey about desire is never named on a card you can share. Then you can start the same journey again from day one, whenever you want.
Why is Rekindle Pace rated 16+?
Because of the Desire track. It is words only, never graphic, and it stays closed unless you've both chosen to open it. Either of you can close it again at any moment, for both of you.
What if things feel unsafe, not just hard?
A joint program is not the right tool when there is fear, threats or violence, and Rekindle Pace is not crisis support. Please talk to someone you trust, find a helpline near you at findahelpline.com, or call your local emergency number if you are in danger.
How is Rekindle Pace different from Wovin?
Wovin is for the hours after a fight: a five-stage Repair Room for the talk itself. Rekindle Pace is a longer, staged program: journeys of two to six weeks with a last day, built for a pace you both can keep.
