First Date. Remember who was who.
Three dates in one week and they blur together. First Date keeps them straight — and quietly shows you your own patterns.
First Date is a private journal for dating life: log each date, keep the details straight, and notice the patterns you keep repeating — so you date with a little more clarity and a lot less guessing. It works solo; no account required to start.
- Works solo — partner optional
The private dating journal that keeps it all straight.
A journal for your dating life
Log each date while it's fresh — who, where, how it actually felt. The details that blur together by Friday stay exactly where you left them.
Private by default
Your dating life is nobody's business but yours. Start writing straight away — no account required — and keep everything on your terms, with nothing public and no feed.
Notice your own patterns
Gentle reflections help you see what you keep going back to — and what you keep talking yourself out of. Not a verdict, just a clearer mirror.
Green flags, red flags, your call
Jot the little things you'd rather not forget between date two and date five. You decide what matters; First Date just remembers it for you.
Just for you — partner optional
First Date is built for one person doing the dating. No pairing, no pressure — just a calmer, clearer way to date.
Dating, with a memory
A good week of dating is a blur by the weekend — names, jobs, which one had the dog.
You swore you'd remember the thing that bugged you on date two. By date four, it's gone.
So you keep re-learning the same lessons about the same kind of person.
First Date is just a quiet place to write it down — the details, the feelings, the little flags.
Date with a memory, and the patterns stop being a surprise.
Made for your two.
People actively dating several people
A good week of dating is a blur by Friday — keep them straight.
Anyone who keeps repeating the same pattern
Write it down and the patterns stop being a surprise.
Private daters who want no feed and no pairing
Your dating life is nobody’s business but yours.
How it actually feels.
Three dates in one week and they blur together — names, jobs, which one had the dog. You log each one while it is fresh, and by date five the little flags you would have talked yourself out of are right there in your own words.
Questions, answered.
Is First Date private?
Yes. It's a personal journal — nothing is public, there's no feed, and you can start writing without an account. Your notes are yours.
Do I need to be in a relationship to use it?
No — it's built for the dating part, when you're meeting different people and trying to keep them straight. It works solo; partner optional.
What's free?
You can start journaling your dates for free. Optional extras are available in the app — and the App Store always shows the price before you buy.
Is First Date for couples?
No — it is built for one person doing the dating, with no pairing and no partner needed. If you are past the dating stage, our couples apps like Wend pick up from there.
Will it tell me who to date?
No verdicts — just a clearer mirror. Gentle reflections help you notice your own patterns, and you decide what they mean.
Do I need an account to start?
No — you can start journaling straight away, no account required, and keep everything private on your own terms.
